What Is Wrong With Fundamentalist Pastors?
Posted by Captain Crunch in Fundamentalism, Ministry on January 21st, 2010
Fundamentalism has claimed to have the answers to stopping sin, by their superior standards that will keep one from sinning. Don’t go to the theater, and you won’t struggle with impure thoughts or with using foul language. Women have to dress a certain way, in order to protect men from lusting after them. Men and women can’t touch unless they are married(to one another), so they won’t fall into sexual sin. If one is a faithful soulwinner who reads/studies the Bible on a regular basis, they won’t fall into sin. I have heard “remedy” after “remedy” for stopping the presence of sin in one’s life, for keeping one away from sin by placing barriers in place to protect one from sin.
But these remedies do little to protect the very pastors who put these rules in place from sinning. The pastor is the pinnacle of IFBdom. He is seen as the final authority in the life of the church, and in some circles, even the lives of individual parishoners. He is seen as a holy man, who can do little wrong.
And when those same pastors fall into sexual sin, it is many times seen as the fault of the woman who he slept with. Or it is overlooked by the parishoners of the church.
I recently was reminded of the affair of former “pastor” Marty Braemer, formerly the “pastor” of Ford’s Bush Bible Church in New York. For nine long months he had an affair with a married woman, mentally and emotionally abandoning his own wife and children. In so doing, he recklessly attempted to destroy the credibility and lives of those who came forward with information about the affair. And now, he claims to be repentant and attempting to “fix his life”. The reason so much is known about his affair, is because of his long-time membership at the Fighting Fundamentalist Forums, where for several years he attacked other members with perverse postings(“Is that a banana in your pocket or are you happy to see me?”), and lurid personal attacks(such as bringing up the affair of a member who had long since left the forums years before).
The reason this came to mind, was because of a conversation I recently had with a friend who is the child of a fundamentalist pastor. This friend told me that for several years, his father carried on an affair with a woman in their church. For several years, his father would get into the pulpit on Sunday, teaching God’s word, and then step out of the pulpit to engage in a sexual affair with a woman who was not his wife. He lied to his wife, his child, his church, for sexual pleasure that was forbidden to him.
So why is it that men who claim to be called of God to preach will so easily harden their hearts and walk willingly into sin? Why is it that these men will go month after month and year after year to pursue a lover that they should not be with? Why is it that they can justify their sin, to the point that they will make plans to get away with their illicit love, or that they will consider such people to be their “soul mate”?
I would suppose that the first answer would be that such men are false converts. They are men who have a sort of Christian morality, but without Christ. These men can lie and justify their perversion because they do not have the Holy Spirit indwelling them. The second answer goes along with the first, because the second answer is that Fundamentalism misses the essence of what the Christian life is about. One is not moral because they follow rules. One is not moral because they go to church every Sunday. One is not a good Christian because they follow those rules. One is not a Christian because they follow those rules. Rule-keeping does not make a good Christian. And it does not make a good person. It is pure moralism, instead of Gospel.
The answer is in teaching the Gospel, instead of rule-keeping. Too many Fundamentalists fail to teach repentance from sins as part of the salvation process, thus watering down the Gospel to something that is more palatable to sinners. They make their Christianity easy for those who love their sin, but want fire insurance. The answer is also in desiring Christ, and desiring to live for the glory of God. So much of Fundamentalism is about keeping rules, and following a list of do’s and don’ts. But that’s not what the Christian life is about. Sure there are things that a Christian can’t do, like have sex outside the confines of marriage, or get drunk or high, or lie to others. And sure there are things that Christians need to do, like read the Bible, pray, go to church. But that is not the essence of the Christian life. Following Christ is more than not doing or doing those things. I would strongly recommend that Fundamentalists look to books written by non-Fundy authors that deal with things like sin, or living for God, because Fundamentalists don’t have the answer. Books like “Overcoming Sin and Temptation” by John Owen(the Puritan), or “Desiring God” by John Piper.
In short, such men are able to sin so gravely because they don’t understand the nature of sin, the Gospel, or the essence of the Christian life. They run headlong into such sin because they are sinners with no indwelling of the Holy Spirit to guide them away from sin.
Stupid music discouraged me…
Posted by Trina in Uncategorized on October 28th, 2009
I’ll probably decide this post was a bad idea come morning but here it is for now…
I’m not really convinced anyone really reads this blog any more since we quit posting regularly anyway so I think I’m going to talk about something that has me really upset inside. I hadn’t listened to any music in awhile except for secular so I turned on some casting crowns tonight. I only listened to maybe half a dozen songs before I had to turn it off so I didn’t start crying (I was at work so that would have been bad). In those few songs I heard about what could happen if His people started to really pray, I heard about wanting to share the gospel with your friend yet struggling with fears, about praising God with dance, about God answering prayers… I was reminded of so many things. But instead of encouraging me it broke my heart. I have no body of believers in this area to fellowship with. I don’t pray like I should. God doesn’t answer my prayers when I do and it feels like He doesn’t listen anyway. Almost all of my friends, at least locally, are unsaved. And even they are few. I don’t know when the last time was when I felt I was able to praise God. I feel lost and deserted. I’m glad to be free of the IFBx movement but you can’t leave bad for nothing. But what is there? Nothing. I’ve given up. In about 6 months I hope to move away and once in a new town maybe I’ll find something. Until then, I don’t know. I forget what sort of tree it was that Jonah sat under (or was it Elijah? Actually I think it was both) but I think I’ll go sit with him.
Cut up that banana!
Posted by Trina in Fundamentalism on October 28th, 2009
Ok, I’m going to be honest here. I know I’m a girl and this is something you would normally hear from a guy but I thought of something today and I want to vent about it a little bit. So, what I was going to say is, I struggle with temptations…. And I know its normal to struggle, and part of it is my age (I’m 24 and still single), but its more than that. What does this have to do with fundamentalism? Well I was talking with some people on a forum today and it made me realize just how much sex was a big topic when I was a fundamentalist. We were talking about many of the rules we had to follow.
***Don’t read these unless you’re willing to have your view of some things forever warped***
Rules about things like:
- You have to cut your banana before you eat it
- You had to be careful about eating a lot of other things such as lolipops, ice cream cones, corn dogs, popcicles, licking a knife or spoon clean, etc
- You have to be careful about how you held a microphone when singing
- Plus the million dress rules (which I think I listed in the past, if not I think I need to)
***its safe to read again***
Anyway, I grew up with all those rules and probably many more if I took the time to think about it. As a fundamentalist EVERYTHING was looked at in such a way to see if it could be seen as sexual, so you could not do it that way, and that way you wouldn’t cause guys to stumble. Then after pounding your head full of what looks bad so you didn’t do it, you got to hear sermon after sermon to the adults about how great sex is, and how husbands and wives need to love each other and not with hold sex, and sex sex sex sex sex. Then you heard sermon after sermon about how every teen was probably having sex and how wicked they were so you needed to make sure to not even touch a guy’s hand because if you did then you would fall so far that you would end up pregnant! Did you know that at that point you can sit 6 inches away (another rule) from a guy you like and actually feel heat radiating off of him? And if your hands bumped thats enough to make you blush and break out in a sweat? Its crazy. Anyway, so after all of that its no wonder why so many are obsessed with sex. You know maybe… just maybe… if we can quit having such dirty thoughts over just a banana, we can get to the point that sex doesn’t matter so much anymore after all. Its just a thought. But it is really hard to get past it when you had that mind set for so many years.
Appropriate Music – Dr. Mike Hall
Posted by Trina in College, Fundamentalism, Morality, Music on August 27th, 2009
So I found some of my old college notes and was looking through them and thought others should be able to share in what I found lol. I figured I’d start with my music notes and break them into a few sections. These are from my class Appropriate Music by Dr. Michael Hall, President of Providence Baptist College.
Is music moral or amoral? Phil 2:5
- 1. If music affects us – it does
- 2. If when we are affected is it to the right or wrong? – it does
- 3. If right vs. wrong = morality = it does
- 4. The MUSIC IS MORAL
Areas in which we can evaluate music.
- 1. Physiological – what it causes us to do physically.
- 2. Associational – for what we associate with it
Physiological issues
- there are effects music can have that are harmful
- there are addictive affects music can have
What are the problems?
- You acquire a taste for that which is not good for you
- It becomes a conduit for worse
Association Issues
- You become with whom you associate
- You have to be careful about the appearance of evil. You liberty may become a stumbling block. (ex. meat offered to idols)
Man is a Tricotomy – I Thes 5:23
- Body (this is all plants are) – II Cor 5:6 – Your body senses and responds to stimulus – Our attitude toward it should be Romans 13:14
- Soul (this plus a body are what animals are) – Matt 26:38 – Its your self-awareness and emotions. Responds to others for self-preservation and essence and life). – Our attitude toward it should be Proverbs 3:5&6
- Spirit (this plus a body and soul are what humans are) – I Cor 2:11 – Its our thoughts and spiritual mind. It responds to God. – Our attitude towards it should be Phil 2:5
Everything should Focus on the Spirit first and Body last.
Music is a tricotomy
- Rhythm – Pulses/beats – Causes us to respond with physical stimulus (dance/march) – Attitude toward it should be Ex 32:19a
- Harmony – Chords – Causes us to respond to others (patriotism/love/victory) – Attitude: Eph 4:14
- Melody – Tune – Causes us to respond to God (invitation song/missions) – Eph 5:19
The elements of music have cultural parallels
- Rhythm – Africa – Such as African dance music
- Harmony – Europe – Such as Mozarts Eine Kleine Nacht Musik
- Melody – Asia – Asian/Middle Eastern Songs
Pop Music – is lighter with lower informational content, more excessive (more can understand it), it is tuneful, easy to play, shorter in length, written for the purpose of money, not love of music.
Presuppositionalism and Apologetics.
Posted by Ben in Uncategorized on August 21st, 2009
In 1985 two very intelligent men met at the University of California to engage in a debate. Their topic?
“Does God exist?”
Dr. Greg Bahnsen defended the proposition that God does exist while Dr. Gordon Stein attempted to prove that there was not enough evidence to make an informed decision on the existence of the Christian God.
In this debate Dr. Bahnsen used a form of argumentation known as Presuppositionalism, the position can be summed up as such:
Without the Christian God all worldviews will follow their logical conclucions to inconsistency and absurdity.
Dr. Bahnsen wrote a few books on the subject which I greatly reccommend, those being:
1.) Pushing the Antithesis
2.) Van Til’s apologetic
You can also watch Dr. Bahnsen’s lectures on youtube at this link.
God did it
Posted by Trina in Uncategorized on May 27th, 2009
I heard that again not too long ago. I was talking to an old friend who is married to a bipolar lady. I don’t know if he knew she was bipolar before he married her or not (how do you not?) but either way, he now has problems sometimes with her because of it (if you’ve never dealt with a bipolar person, their mood swings can be rough sometimes). So, he was talking to me about having patience and said to me “I guess thats why God gave me a bipolar wife”. Why does God get blamed for that? Does God not give you a brain and the ability to get to know the person and to decide if they’re the type of person you want to be with? Why does God get blamed many times for the decisions we make? I can agree that in general God is in control and what He wills will be done, but it still doesn’t excuse our responsibility in making wise decisions.
I know this is sorta a randomly written post, but I just wanted to share a few thoughts about it.
Part 1 Of The Reasons I’m Not Currently An IFB
Posted by ReformedFundy in Uncategorized on April 30th, 2009
Why I Left
Posted by Trina in Fundamentalism, KJV, Ministry, Music on April 13th, 2009
A few people have asked me recently why I left fundamentalism. Was it because i turned atheist? Am I bitter over something that happened to me? Do I no longer believe the fundamentals of the faith? None of those are the reason. I didn’t even mean to leave really. Over the last three or so years my beliefs and opinions on many things have changed. And once too many things change, you just don’t fit in any more. So what has changed? Things like…
- I no longer believe in using a 123 gospel – people sin, Christ died, pray this prayer. The fundamentalist circles I was in taught and witnessed in that manner. I was taught that when you’re witnessing the most important thing it to get them to pray the prayer. Either by witnessing, then trying to lead them. Then share your testimony, and try to lead them, and lastly pray with them, witness in your prayer, and then try to lead them. That whole idea is totally unbiblical. Wheres the repentance and true faith? and judging by their own testimonies and the fruit they produce most were not even saved, but if they dared question their salvation they were either led in another prayer, or pointed back to the fact that they already did pray.The pastor was in charge to the point of being pope-like. If you wanted to make a decision about buying a house, taking a job, or whether or not to put your kids in christian school, you were supposed to ask the pastor for his counsel. Most times it was never God’s will for you to move away, or to not pay the church school no matter what the issues were behind it. I know of many church kids who’s lives were more or less ruined because they’re parents trusted the pastor in this area against their better judgment.
- You were not a spiritual christian unless you agreed with the pastor on things like what women should wear, what sort of music was good or bad, etc. But, if you were even more strict than the pastor was, that was also bad. Then you were just crazy. At one point my family didn’t believe celebrating Christmas was right, so we didn’t. My parents were told they were crazy and were ruining their childrens lives. We didn’t attend their Christmas service since it was themed, and decorated for the holiday, including a tree and my dad took a lot of heat over it. I also was around too many times when the pastor would poke fun at people in the congregation for listening to CCM/Praise & Worship style music or wearing pants. This all also goes back to the pastor being too much in charge.
- Also, I now listen to CCM/Praise & Worship style music, secular rock and country music, and I wear pants.
- I believe the Bible teaches elder rule or multiple pastors. I’m not sure exactly how that would actually work as I’ve personally seen no examples of it in practice, but most IFB churches, again, have one man in charge.
- I do not agree that the Bible teaches the modern methods of soul winning (random door-knocking), or bus routes. Most people are not going to trust some random church person who shows up at their door and they’re going to have no reason to listen to you. Bus routes can be used in a good way, but they’re just used for numbers in the examples I’ve seen. Go pick up all the poor kids no one cares about, and then don’t even watch them in the church so they just terrorize the place. It also causes a lot of problems when you reach the kid, but don’t bother trying to reach the parents.
- I believe its best if the family can be together for the services. I’m not totally against a separate Sunday School Class or something though I don’t see them necessary, but the idea that your kids and teens are in separate SS classes, church service, evening church service, wednesday night program, youth activity, soul winning etc than you, the parents, and so never get to work side by side with their parents and other adults is a very bad idea. The families are too separated too much. Depending on the church they may allow you to not put your child in these programs, but then the kids feel really left out and begin to not like, or get mad at the parent in my experience.
- I have also come to agree with Calvinism, and disagree with KJVonlyism which just adds to it.
Now I know all these things are not true about all IFB churches, but this is how it was in the Fundamentalist circles (not just a couple churches, multiple churches all over the country) I was in, and that is what I have left.
So what does that make me? I have no idea. I’m still trying to figure that out. I do know though that I no longer fit in with the IFBs I used to be part of. Since I no longer fit in, I can no longer be part of them. I also know that I’m still a christian and not an atheist or something.
Things Fundys Enjoy Doing-Committing Borderline Blasphemy
Posted by Captain Crunch in Fundamentalism, KJV on March 31st, 2009
If there’s one thing Fundys love doing, it’s taking God’s Word and burning it, or slandering God’s word by calling it the work of Satan. They ascribe the NIV, NASB, ESV, and pretty much every translation other than the KJV to the work of Satan. Some “pastors”(and I use that term very, very loosely), have advocated burning such translations, shredding them, and using them for toilet paper. Although, when it comes to PRE-KJV translations, they tend to be a bit more mild in their approach. They will say that such translations were good, but insufficient and not perfect. There are some however, who have attributed the recent resurgence of the Geneva Bible to the work of Satan.
Women Shalt Not Wear Pants
Posted by ReformedFundy in Fundamentalism on March 30th, 2009
That’s how Deuteronomy 22:5 would read in the King James Translation of the Bible if every Fundy had their way. Women wearing pants is an abomination against God according to Fundamentalists. Now, this can get tricky, with some Fundys, because some of them have to go to the furthest edges of the extreme to protect the idea that pants are a male garment only. Some Fundy “pastors” will argue that Jesus Christ himself wore pants. Check out the following video from Fundy Pastor Steve Anderson(aka-Blasphemous Nutjob Extraordinaire).
Now, I’ll get back to “Pastor” Steve Anderson’s nuttery in a few moments, it’s time to address Deuteronomy 22:5 here.
Deu 22:5 KJVR The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
Deu 22:5 ESV “A woman shall not wear a man’s garment, nor shall a man put on a woman’s cloak, for whoever does these things is an abomination to the LORD your God.
What, precisely, is this verse saying? Well, according to other Fundys, it’s making a “Major Premise”. Here’s a blog post by Kent Brandenburg that goes into a bit more detail about that, so click here for more information about how other Fundys see the issue.
Here’s how he demonstrates a point that he’s trying to make here, it certainly gives insight to how the Fundy mindset goes.
Major or First Premise: The woman who wears the male article is an abomination to God.
Minor or Second Premise: Pants are the male article.
Conclusion: The woman who wears pants is an abomination to God.
Now, Kent’s minor premise is already flawed, because pants are no longer exclusively a male garment. In fact, in the third and fourth centuries, pants were worn by Persian women. In India, women have been wearing pants for two thousand years. Pants took hold in European culture during the Sixteenth century, and were predominately worn by men up until about the 1940’s and 1950’s, when women began wearing them. Early pants however, were similar to pantyhose or tights. So does that mean that women should not wear those items(Note: I have yet to see a Fundy honestly answer this question with any rationale that is consistent to their argument against women wearing pants).
Now, in Deuteronomy 22:5, the Hebrew word translated as “pertaineth”(in the KJV), is usually translated as weapon or armor in Scripture. The word translated as “man” means “warrior” or “mighty man of valor”. The word translated as “garment” in the second part of the verse is better translated “cloak” or “mantle”.
Now, Fundys are quite good at dodging arguments put forth against their own interpretation of Scripture and culture, and trying to put the onus back on others to defend their position. Notice how Kent keeps avoiding arguments that others make, without actually addressing their arguments. He makes some noise, yes, but he avoids the substance of an argument with a deft dodge. Let’s take a look.
You talk about fundamentalism building a “dogma.” All Western culture had men in pants and women in skirts from the 1500s and until the mid to late 1900s. This wasn’t a fundamentalism conspiracy, Will. Fundamentalism is a movement that began around 1920 in the United States.
Which was responded to with this:
Kent, you keep bring up Western Culture, as if that’s what we should use to judge our styles of dress by as Christians. Well, it’s not. What European men have done for hundreds of years is not how we decide what is right or proper to wear. But you’re arguing the opposite. Simply because Western men have worn such-and-such for five hundred years doesn’t make it right.
Go a bit farther down to Kent’s second response to me, and he has this to say:
Will,
I clicked on your Persian clothing article. That is missing the point—a pagan culture hasn’t determined what the male article is for our culture. They don’t follow the Bible as an authority—that is their main problem. You don’t look to them to find out how to practice the Bible.
I’ll be awaiting your answer to my questions above about the text of Deut 22:5.
Really Kent? Do tell. Now, question Kent, since you keep avoiding my argument. Who has made historic(I say historic because women wearing pants is now acceptable in European countries and in America) European culture the deciding force in how we as Christians get to dress? What exactly is so holy about white, European culture, that this particular culture gets to decide what’s right and wrong. Furthermore, you’ve entirely skipped over another part of my argument.
Men wore skirts in the Bible. So did women. Men wore robes in the Bible. So did women. Men wore cloaks in the Bible. So did women. The only thing gender specific about their clothing was the style of the clothing, or the colors or ornamentation. Any honest examination of the Bible and Bible archaeology will tell you this. To then turn around and say that “Because in Western Culture for the past 500 years, only men have worn pants, then women are an abomination if they wear pants” is to distort the teaching of Scripture and change it into commandments of men.
We know that Hebrew men wore kilts in Bible times. We know that both sexes wore robes, we know that both sexes wore skirts. We know that both sexes wore clothing that was very similar to what the other sex wore. So how exactly is that different than men’s and women’s pants? In fact, in Genesis 3, God made shirts for Adam and Eve, and we are given no indication that these shirts were gender-specific in their style.
Now if you notice, on that same blog that I linked to, in the comments, one regular reader of this blog argued that God had made pants specifically for men, when God commanded that the priests wear breeches when they did their work in the temple. This is the same argument used by “Pastor” Steve Anderson in the video we watched at the beginning of this post.
Exo 28:42 KJVR And thou shalt make them linen breeches to cover their nakedness; from the loins even unto the thighs they shall reach:
Exo 28:42 ESV You shall make for them linen undergarments to cover their naked flesh. They shall reach from the hips to the thighs;
I like how the ESV translates this verse, because it’s certainly much more accurate than how either “Pastor” Anderson or Blog-Reader Jerry Bouey translate this verse. These “pants” were nothing more than undershorts.
Here’s the word translated as “breeches” in the KJT.
H4370
מכנס
miknâs
mik-nawce’
From H3647 in the sense of hiding; (only in dual) drawers (from concealing the private parts): – breeches.
The verse after gives us some perspective when we read this verse in it’s context. This entire chapter is giving instructions for priestly garments, not for typical day-to-day garments.
Exo 28:42-43 KJVR And thou shalt make them linen breeches to cover their nakedness; from the loins even unto the thighs they shall reach: (43) And they shall be upon Aaron, and upon his sons, when they come in unto the tabernacle of the congregation, or when they come near unto the altar to minister in the holy place; that they bear not iniquity, and die: it shall be a statute forever unto him and his seed after him.
These were nothing more than boxer shorts. Not much else. To claim that this was somehow God’s endorsement on bifurcated garments for men is naught more than sheer ignorance.
Naturally, it’s rather rare that items like “shirts” come up in this discussion. Everybody knows that there’s little differences in most women’s blouses and men’s dress shirts. Other than perhaps design/pattern/color, and the fact that women’s blouses have buttons on a different side than a men’s shirt. In the Fundy high school that I went to, Male students were required to wear a white or blue dress shirt, and female students were required to wear a white or blue blouse. In most cases, the only way to tell the difference between the two was either a rounded collar corner on a blouse, or the side the buttons were on with either the shirt or the blouse. Women’s footwear, is also another area that tends to be overlooked. Women’s sneakers aren’t much different than those of men. And contrary to popular belief in Fundy circles, there are differences between males pants and females pants. For one thing, the buttons are on a different side, there tends to be a lack of a zipper, wider leg openings for women’s pants, more room in the rear, a higher rise, less pockets etc. With men’s pants, there’s usually a six inch difference between waist and hip. With women’s pants, there’s a ten inch difference. So the argument that there is no difference between pants for men and women falls flat.
Now let’s look at what some respected Biblical commentators have to say on the subject.
Preacher’s Commentary
Deu 22:5 –
Transvestism
This short section of Scripture has caused much debate in some Christian circles. What does it mean? Here are some possible explanations:
One explanation is that this practice was associated with the religion of Canaan; therefore, it was “an abomination to the LORD.” Apparently women appeared in male garments and men in women’s clothes when they worshiped their pagan deities. Yahweh wanted His people to be unique and to do nothing that was in any way connected with foreign religions.
Another theory is that this verse could refer to war. A woman was not to put on the trappings of a soldier or dress like a man in order to try to gain admission into the army. Nor were men to attempt to avoid military obligation by dressing as women.
Another explanation often given for this ban is that it obscured the distinction between the sexes and therefore violated an essential part of the created order of life (Gen_1:27). The Hebrew phrase for “pertains to” is used elsewhere in referring to decorations or utensils used by the opposite sex. During the days of Moses, garments worn by men and women were very similar (robes); so this command was designed to keep a woman from appearing as a man for purposes of licentiousness. The major difference between male and female robes was their decoration or ornamentation. This passage does not teach against women’s wearing slacks, hats, shoes, gloves, or other items that are now worn by both sexes, but rather against the wearing of any item specifically intended for the opposite sex. The distinctives of each sex should be maintained and protected in regard to outward appearance. The New Testament instruction in Gal_3:28 that “there is neither male or female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus” applied to status in God’s sight and not to dress. While we realize that we are one in Christ, recognition of the differences between the sexes is a principle worth safeguarding.
Still another explanation is that this verse refers to the practice of transvestism, a deviant form of sexual behavior which is often characterized by cross-dressing. The verse says women should not wear things “pertaining to” the male. This phrase includes not only clothing, but also ornaments, weapons, and other items normally associated with men. In the second clause, women’s clothing is explicitly forbidden men.
Transvestism is sometimes associated with homosexuality, and in the ancient world its practice was associated with the cults of certain deities. Whatever the circumstance, the practice of transvestism was “an abomination to the LORD.”
Adam Clarke’s Commentary
Deu 22:5 –
The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man – כלי גבר keli geber, the instruments or arms of a man. As the word גבר geber is here used, which properly signifies a strong man or man of war, it is very probable that armor is here intended; especially as we know that in the worship of Venus, to which that of Astarte or Ashtaroth among the Canaanites bore a striking resemblance, the women were accustomed to appear in armor before her. It certainly cannot mean a simple change in dress, whereby the men might pass for women, and vice versa. This would have been impossible in those countries where the dress of the sexes had but little to distinguish it, and where every man wore a long beard. It is, however, a very good general precept understood literally, and applies particularly to those countries where the dress alone distinguishes between the male and the female. The close-shaved gentleman may at any time appear like a woman in the female dress, and the woman appear as a man in the male’s attire. Were this to be tolerated in society, it would produce the greatest confusion. Clodius, who dressed himself like a woman that he might mingle with the Roman ladies in the feast of the Bona Dea, was universally execrated.
Keil and Delitzsch Commentary on the Old Testament
Deu_22:5
As the property of a neighbour was to be sacred in the estimation of an Israelite, so also the divine distinction of the sexes, which was kept sacred in civil life by the clothing peculiar to each sex, was to be not less but even more sacredly observed. “There shall not be man’s things upon a woman, and a man shall not put on a woman’s clothes.” כּלי does not signify clothing merely, nor arms only, but includes every kind of domestic and other utensils (as in Exo_22:6; Lev_11:32; Lev_13:49). The immediate design of this prohibition was not to prevent licentiousness, or to oppose idolatrous practices (the proofs which Spencer has adduced of the existence of such usages among heathen nations are very far-fetched); but to maintain the sanctity of that distinction of the sexes which was established by the creation of man and woman, and in relation to which Israel was not to sin. Every violation or wiping out of this distinction – such even, for example, as the emancipation of a woman – was unnatural, and therefore an abomination in the sight of God.
Kent keeps making an argument based on an idea that historic European Culture should dictate what is acceptable male and female attire today. I reject his argument as being entirely unbiblical. Furthermore, his argument is entirely illogical and contradicts itself. Because Kent keeps pointing to European culture to make his argument. And the way that European and European influenced culture dresses today is quite different. Men and women both wear pants. Men and women both wear pants that are different in style from the other sexes style. Men and women wear pants that have different design features, different placement of buttons and zippers. If Kent wants to point to culture as that being the deciding factor in this argument, then he must concede that his point is no longer valid in today’s culture. In fact, many Fundys would have to do this if they were going to be logically consistent. Today’s world has totally changed. Yesterday’s world is gone. In Biblical times, Godly men wore what many Fundys would consider to be skirts or dresses but that were stylistically different from women’s clothing. In today’s world, many Godly women wear pants that are stylistically different from men’s garments. This Bible verse is obviously not simply referring to just clothing. This is where Bible study needs to come in, digging deeper into the verse and into the culture of the Hebrew people at this time. This argument is getting old, and frankly, ridiculous.